Finding a mate is not as easy as it sounds. In fact, match makiing, social media and online dating have become known and common tools to help you increase your chances and expedite the process of finding a mate. Pastor R.C. Blakes, Jr. is known for his commentary. blogs and insight on relationships. His YouTube channel provides a host of segments that address male-female behaviorial components that contritube to a successful and/or destructive relationship. Pastor Blakes shares his insight on why it’s so hard to find a mate and reveal options for those that are seeking.