Are you in a marriage or relationship and living in hell. Is it not working for you any longer and you want out. Before giving him or her the boot, stop and listen. Soy interviews a Pastor’s son who reveals his MESS and describes his marital bliss. Learn how they climbed out of their mess to maintain their marriage. Now their mess has become their ministry. 4 LIFE Ministry Reggie and Dee Scandrett, Marriage Mentors.